Being Confident in God

I’ve always, since I was little, thought that the key in life was to be the best. I thought I needed the best clothes, needed to play every sport I could and have the best grades. I thought I needed to be better than who was next to me. When I began to understand the thought of God making me, one of a kind, I knew I had it all wrong. 

I wasn’t confident the way I needed to be. I was confident in my looks and what I was doing and that wasn’t gonna take me anywhere. That kind of confidence has an ending. Somewhere in life you’ll meet someone better and there it goes, you have low self esteem. The confidence that God will give you last a life time. 

Isaiah 32:17 says “The fruit of righteousness will be peace, the effect of righteousness will be quietness and confidence forever” 

I’ve met people who have confidence. I’ve also met people who have confidence. One loved themselves, they flaunted what they had whether it be materials or body image. Don’t get me wrong, I was jealous of what they had and their looks, I wanted what they had, but when I met the people who had confidence in God, my view point changed… I wanted what they had. Confidence in God. 

Ephesians 2:19-22 says “Whenever you feel unloved, unimportant or insecure remember to whom you belong.” 

God made me, he made me look the way I look. I am one of a kind. I know that where ever I go in life, God has a plan. I have confidence that God will lead me and he will take care of me. I have no reason to worry, no reason to compare myself to anothers or be jealous of what he/she has. 
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Psalm 112:7 says “she confidently trust the Lord will care for her” 

Now that I’ve talked about confidence, I wanna talk about being conceited. YOU ARE NO BETTER THAN THE PERSON NEXT TO YOU. God made them also, he made them look the way they look and everything within them. If someone compliments you… say thank you.. that’s all. You do not need to be snotty and say “oh I know” or “well duh it’s me” no. do not do that. God does not want you to be like that, he wants you to be secure with yourself and confident through him.
The kind of people who are conceited,get me, I can stand it. Sure, there are people who are pretty than me, have better things than me but that does not make them better than me and I am not better than anyone else. We are equal. 

Colossians 3:1-4 says “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory”

Remember. God does want you to be confident in yourself also, but he also wants you to be confident in him. 

Ways to be confident in yourself:

1. Tell yourself you are one of a kind 

Nobody looks like you, talks like you, walks like you, nobody is you. You are yourself and that is so amazing. You are God’s masterpiece.  Always remember that. 

2. Focus on what you love

Why waste time talking about your flaws? Do you really have flaws? Sure you might have acne or scars, stretch marks and cellulite but you’re beautiful/or handsome. God made you, he made that. He places each and every detail on you with a purpose. Don’t worry that you have a small butt or boobs. YOU ARE A MASTER PIECE. 

3. Smile. 

Smile. Smile. Smile. Smile. you are alive and breathing. God loves you so much, everything about you and he has a plan. Be confident in him and ask for confidence in yourself. 

{ Read my blog: “You are one of a Kind” for more information of this topic } 

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You are one of a Kind: Psalm 139:14 


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Ways to Stress Less

John 14:27 says “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

Life gets the best of all of us. Whether that be school, work or just daily life. We get stressed and get anxiety about the smallest things and that’s okay. It’s something we can not stop from happening, but we sure can try to make it happen less. The definition when I typed  ‘stress’ in the google search bar was: Exerted pressure on a subject or material. It’s a mental factor, something our minds create when we think of such things. It could be that physics test you know you didn’t study for, all the way to that perfect outfit for the first date. It is called life.

First things first… STOP AND REMEMBER TO RELAX. Take a deep breath and understand that it is not the end of the world and that God has a plan for you.

Luke 21:19 says “Stand firm and you will win life.”

Things happen and they are definitely NOT gonna go the way you want them to each time. It just will never happen, I have no way to tell you except blunt like that. Life goes on, and I will tell you, I am a stressor. I stress about everything I do, even my whole preplanned gym workouts that I’ve had planned for weeks. I stress. I began to try to find ways to stop stressing when I realized what it was doing to not only the people around me but to my inner self. I had breakouts and mood swings, I could never get enough sleep and I was constantly feeling like I was having bad days. Over and over I tried, but I never could succeed until I started using these simple things.

I’ll say them short and sweet because who am I kidding, not every blog post I write is gonna be 500+ words long.

  1. If your life is a mess, your head is a mess.

Organization might not seem important, but boy it is. You don’t have to be the best organizer but if you would set yourself a goal and organize your life the way you can it will help you for the better. Stop stressing about missing an exam or the deadline at work and just right it down. Get a planner or a notebook and keep track of your life.

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2. Are you just over thinking?

Over thinking is a killer, I do it all the time. I know this sounds weird but really stop and think about what you are over thinking. Is it that important to get the stress knots in your back and lose those hours of sleep each night over the shirt you didn’t get at the store, or the 60 you made on the test? It’s not, life goes on with or without you so don’t waste your time.

3. Find your hobby

I go to the gym everyday. It is my way of getting rid of stress. I push myself and just lift or run and clear my mind. You don’t have to go to the gym or run to relieve stress, some people cook, read, sleep, write or even just listen to music. Find something that you enjoy doing and go do it.

There are so many ways you can relieve your stress than just the 3 I have listed. Go for a bike ride, rant to a friend over dinner, call your mom… save the drama for your mama…. that saying was made for a reason. (; Don’t waste your life stressing over things. Think about it, do something about it and move on. Those breakouts and sleepless nights aren’t worth it.

If you want more ways of relieving stress feel free to comment below or shoot me a message in the contact link above.